Why Has She Never Met a Good Man? : The Other McCain

August 23, 2025

Posted on | August 23, 2025 | No Comments

Here is the transcript of her video rant:

“I’ve never once met a good man — my entire life, going on almost 32 years, OK? I’ve never met one genuinely good man. Every single man I have encountered has done something absolutely horrific and minimized it. Every single man that I’ve encountered is a liar, is a perv, and does not see women as humans. Every single man that I’ve ever encountered is so far up the patriarchy booty-butt, they genuinely think that it’s OK for them to not grow past the mental age of 12. They genuinely think that having a job is all that they need to do. I’ve never met a good man — not my father, I don’t consider him a good man. My brothers? Really not good men. My ex — baby daddy — not a good man.His dad? Horrible man. His two brothers, one of them is halfway decent, but still don’t consider him good, uh-uh. His sister’s husband? Really shitty. All of my male family members, horrible people. All of my past male colleagues, all of my male instructors, professors, all of them are fucking horrible — horrible! There is no such thing as a good man. And if you think you’re a good man, please explain why.”

She has never in her entire life, met a good man.

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— Dr. Jebra Faushay (@JebraFaushay) August 21, 2025

We must begin by stipulating that “good man” is a relative term — if we could rank all 3.5 billion men on the planet from best to worst, maybe I could claim to be in the top billion or so, depending on how you’re grading them, but I don’t want to brag, because a good man is humble.

The replies to “Dr. Jebra Faushay” (who is, in case you didn’t realize it, a satirist) are both enlightening and humorous, although sometimes cruel, but before we go there, let me offer some sincere and well-meaning advice. When it comes to the choice of romantic partners, it’s very much like real estate — location, location, location. And by this, I mean not just your GPS coordinates, but where you are located in terms of your socioeconomic class, your race and religion, your interests and affinities.

This is something that drew my attention when examining the phenomenon of “incels.” Over and over again, we see that it’s not just that the “incel” can’t get a girlfriend, but that he also doesn’t have any real male friends, either. In other words, the “incel” lacks social skills — or maybe just has a bad attitude — and this isolates them from other people. And in studying such people, you find that they don’t have the sort of interests and affinities that would help them fix their problems. They don’t end up in dark places by accident, OK? If you’re holed up in your room watching zombie movies, playing video games and masturbating to online porn, these habits aren’t likely to improve your popularity.

What is true of guys who become “incels” is likewise true of misfit women like the one ranting on video about never meeting a “good men.” Somehow, this woman has excluded herself from the social millieu where she might have encountered a better class of men. Notice she speaks of her ex as her “baby daddy,” meaning that she has an ex-boyfriend who wouldn’t marry her after she got pregnant. The phrase “baby daddy” originated in urban underclass culture about 25 or 30 years ago, and the first thing I might say to this woman if she were seeking my advice (which obviously she never would) is, “Why are you running around with trash?”

Far be it from me to endorse snobbery, but if the old adage is true that “you can judge a man by the company he keeps,” the wise man will avoid associating with trash. There is a “crabs-in-the-bucket” problem with such associates, where your loser friends will drag you down because your ambition for a better life is seen as a negative reflection on them.

Also: Never trust somebody who speaks ill of their own family.

When this woman trashes her own father and her brothers? Oh, that’s what poker players call a “tell.” The apple never falls far from the tree, and if someone starts telling me that their parents and siblings are bad people, this certainly does not improve my estimate of their character.

Even if you grew up in a good family, you could examine your parents and point out their flaws and failures, their shortcomings and limitations, but why would you do that in public? Why would you trash your own family’s reputation that way? You think that makes you look good?

Well, these are a few of my thoughts after watching that woman’s video, but the replies to Jebra Faushay’s post are full of humorous (if not necessarily constructive) criticism. Enjoy!